Happy New Year! It's only fitting that in this edition of Asinine Advice, we're talking evaporated milk, Interrupted songs, and more of your New Year's resolutions!
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Make Random Acts of Kindness your New Year's Resolution!
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Every day I cry myself to sleep. You're not motivated. You must hit yourself in the head with this thing so there's no hope. No, she's a rare species.
You're so rude. Tell these people to get the hell out of your face. Okay Happy New Year Hope you all had a wonderful end of the year and welcome back! 2023 is going to be an amazing year for all of us. Yes, uh, thank you for an incredible 2022.
I Think we had a really really wonderful end of the year. Um, we are going to up the game this year. We're gonna do a lot of fun things. We're going to spend money this year on production.
Yes, production is coming. We're gonna hire someone to hold their microphone like this to her mouth. We're gonna start the year off with some New Year's resolutions we're going to talk about. Just beg to subscribe.
So I can start the show or anything if you like what you see for the love of. God If you have toes, press this button, hit that subscribe button wherever it is you must know I don't I actually promise you I don't tell me some of your resolutions for this year. Hydration Okay, what else? Meditation? What else I mean I mean I Want to get a master's degree in education? Okay Master and Education my New Year's resolutions are going to be to up the quality of our production. so we're gonna use better cameras and better but still keep the essence of the show because I think that's what people like people like that we're the starting operation like that.
First Question: First question. My New Year's resolution is to try to get out more and stop being shy of making new friends. How do I overcome this fear of shyness? Happy New Year To you all, start by starting. Let's get to skip there.
So what if you're just go to a place, see someone sitting next to you and go sit half and just wish them happy New Year Go sit in their chair, go and just say oh, I'm sorry I don't know how to respect boundaries. In 2023 I'm going to sit half in other people's chairs, book flights only middle seat when you can choose who you want to be friends with and just lean over and lean in here. What is Benson's absolutely taking Benson to Dubai I know I'm taking Benson to Dubai in two weeks or in a week. So I actually read a comment on one of our videos about Benson it was like all in caps.
The man was shouting at me about how women need to not be fake or this or that. That was the whole thing video because he know Benson no but why extensions? sometimes I use false hair and sometimes I don't sometimes I put on makeup and sometimes I don't. If you look at our videos, some of them are like there's no makeup at all. and yes, Benson is going to make a repeat.
What's it called? He's Gonna Be Reborn Benson is a Hindu people his first name was appearance was the word I was looking for. He's going to make a repeat appearance but that doesn't mean that I'm not happy with the way that I look it's just sometimes you're like I actually still have Benson it's the tail of a horse. no it's not I raced Benson last week Benson is just for fun and yes Benson's gonna come out again and we'll he'll probably make fun of Benson all over again I like Benson Okay what's the best unexpected thing that happened for you this past year? So My highlight was actually the winning the streamy what was yours that is there are there bloody people are going to see the question on the screen I Understand it was a mistake. Settle down. Okay Go Go Go hurry hurry hurry let's go You said meditation I Think that should be number one on your list. Okay, start. Are there any Traditions that you guys do at midnight? For example, a lot of people believe that the color of the underwear you wear during New Year's Eve signifies what you want the nearer to bring you. Red equals love.
Yellow equals money. White equals peace. Blue equals health I guess I didn't ask for anything last opportunity. Are you wearing seven underwear? Yeah, we're wishing for everything.
No we don't have. We don't have like huge Traditions but we like to just be with our family. our loved ones as much as possible. and we like to start the new year like that.
giving everybody. Hudson Everyone has to wear different colored under it. No, we do. I Have heard that people eat like 12 grapes or seven grapes or something like that.
Have you heard that? Never? No. Have you heard of any other Traditions Eating grapes? Yeah other traditional. A lot of people do a lot of things. I We don't have anything in particular if you go to the channel.
Liz's mother has already answered my question. What of what to do Liz's Mother: if you're not reading any of these colors, what did she say I Will not tell you. you must find it on the page. Okay called clickbait.
You must learn the tricks of the trade. People don't like clickbait. They like it. There's nothing clickbaity about what we do.
Yes, no. I Like how does one handle being with someone more attractive than yourself every day I Cried myself to sleep so there's no hope. No, no hope for you. You know what beauty is not about what's on the outside.
it's about what's on the inside and what you feel and the confidence that you come with. That's what people are attracted to. If you have the confidence to wear a pink sweater, the white thing sticking out on you and you are beautiful, They're beautiful. Resolution? well, more of it, actually more random acts of kindness.
Goal is one each week I Love that. I Actually love that you know? Um I Don't tell me I'm telling you. Oh there are a couple of resources that I have found in particular ly there are a couple of resources that I have found for this acts of kindness. If you're looking for inspiration, there's a Randomics of Kindness.com It actually I think I think they have different things that they do.
And for your kids there is a company called Open The Joy that does open your wallets. No that does a kit that is for uh, kindness and it has like different kindness missions that you could do with your children. Why can't you do it on your own? You can. Why can't you borrow a child into an act of kindness? That's not an act of kind? You should do that. No. A neighbor whose child borrower will be so happy. Pay somebody's coffee behind you, pay somebody's like takeout behind you. Look at the drive through.
Uh, hold the door open. Those are all roll down in an old person's window. help them pulling it back up. Take someone's meds for them.
No, don't do that. How do you stay motivated to keep your New Year's resolution one day at a time? Amigo Just do Yeah, just one. It's like one foot in front of the other and you will just get through it. and maybe start the year by writing down your resolution.
Write a letter, write your resolutions down so that you can check in, write a letter to yourself, and mail it and start talking about how disappointed you will be with yourself if when the letter comes, you've already busted no the rules of the year and then when you open the letter, you crumple it and say, haha, you fool I'm still on this path. Then you write another letter. It's called the letter of dissolution. So I want to know how to survives the insanity? I Will tell you he is.
You just have to get used to sitting in one quarter of two chairs. That's how you do it. You just get used to it. Flagrant foul, bloody look.
look what you're wearing. You're supposed to film and you're wearing a turtleneck. There's no survey how. oh quiet time reading books with a string.
so I could say not professional at all. Next question: family and friends hope it's a great one. Here is to many more great years. Love you and what you do.
Please keep up amazing work! But had a random question Randy doesn't like punctuation Would you ever think about bringing back the interrupted series I Love it and love hearing you sing. think there's so many songs you could still do keeping amazing much love We should do that Randy has said it. Why don't we do it Okay every time I say why can't we do interrupted you keep saying no I don't put in the comments below which songs you would like to hear us to. Interrupted: Pick us out, Sing a song Bloody, Come on, you're happy.
No, not your song. You always tell me it's a double. Vlog You can double plug. This is your show.
Plugging your own stuff. What the hell, man. you're gonna wear your own merch next. Yeah, we don't have I spend ten thousand That it takes to learn that sweetheart of yours who's myself.
Would you still do it? I Love you. Yes. If you only had four thousand hours, how would you know that you only have four thousand hours Someone told you. Astrid How do you get evaporated milk in a can if it's evaporated? Finally, finally, finally someone is asking this question. The way to do it People: Okay, it's simple what. You go to the bond of milk where the evaporation happens and you take a can and you hold it upside down like this and as the milk evaporates up, it goes into all the canisters, Then you seal it from the bottom and then you sell it. No, that's how it's made. No, it's made no.
Thank you for asking. Matt Taylor No, Don't listen to a community put sugar, sugar, don't listen. She's trying to kill you with the diabetes. Go ahead.
It's boiled and boiled and boiled in the evaporation like the the water just it boils down and it's thicker and it's more concentrated. It's so sweet. Maybe they add sugar. That's condensed milk.
Listen, the show needs to be. You're thinking you don't know how to bake. that is condensed milk. This episode needs to be condensed.
How long have you been singing? All My Life Are you an independent artist or bonded? save for the piano? Can you play other instruments I Play the flute I can play the flute. Um. I'm trying to increase myself. What are you doing? What are you doing? Don't do that.
Hi I'm trying to teach myself how to play the guitar. but no I play just a piano. But yeah, sorry about that expensive guitar. 2023 is the year.
Yeah, yeah, okay. go. That's a fact. 2023 is the year.
It's the year. Accurate for two days. now. How do I ignore the people who have treated me badly my whole life when they depend on me financially I Feel guilty, but some people are so toxic they are playing with my mental and emotional health.
If I ignore them I can't be a good niece. If I keep paying for them and I'm good then I if I keep paying for them I'm good but too fat, too lazy. don't cook well enough. Should be married with kids.
Hmm sad she's a rare species. Hey bloody, such a nice person. Tell these people to get the hell out of your face, cut them off financially and see how nice they may come to you. Yeah, financially circumcised.
That's a new term. Your mental and emotional state is so valuable. that is what you need to focus on this year. you can be kind and also say no I Think you should say no.
You can be kind and you can set up boundaries. Don't reciprocate if it actually bothered me I would put a stop to so you need to. Don't cut me off I Love your cooking. so you need to do what you need to do.
You're not lazy, thank you I'll walk for you. Okay. stand up for yourself. Bloody Stand up.
Cut them off So you know what? this year I'm not gonna pay for someone to call me fat, lazy and not good enough you need. You're not a bad niece. If you put your foot down and set up some boundaries, you are not a bad person. You seem like a very nice.
You should put your foot up in someone's house. I Want to lose weight? but I don't want to stop eating rich food or drinking alcohol? What should I do? Oh I Hate exercising. You have to call. Candice Candice Your aunt has come to my shop. call your niece. You'll give you money. You have to exercise. It's good for you.
I'm sorry there's no thing. There's nothing wrong. You can keep eating and you can keep drinking to some extent within reason. But you have to exercise.
It's imperative. Yeah, Yeah Exercise is good for your physical health. Mental health I Hate exercising I'm late again for what my my exercise. Oh my exercise.
You're gonna build me again this time. Speed Run Speed Run Hurry I Miss my point. How do you balance mental health, marriage, and individuality? You respect each other and you give each other space and time. Yes, Do you believe in manifestation? What's Loa Laws of Attraction attraction? Yes I Do Yeah! So attract some friends.
you can sing songs I Do believe in manifesting I put I believe that whatever you put into the universe, it will come back to you. This lady is a champ. Not necessarily in the way that you thought it would though. Bosh Caroline is a boss Caroline no no resolutions, no minus 10 kgs and then I'm pretty happy.
Perfect the way I am. Yes, on that note, okay happy. New Year Thank you for all that you do. I've had a terrible you and their pair of you have helped me keep going.
So thank you again Sending hugs and cuddles and lots of love from the UK you know what right back at you Happy New Year We love you guys! So okay. one last one for you. thank you Foreign. How can you prove that the angle of the dangle is directly proportional to the swing of the thing? Any updates on with Lou He was found, he got a job.
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