We recently attended a wedding and got a ton of questions about the traditions and customs of Indian weddings. This is just the tip of the iceberg, and mostly just us having fun while we share. India is so vast and full of different kinds of traditions, that this hardly covers a small portion of what happens at Indian weddings. But, we wanted to share with you what we know!
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We're gonna try and do better this week. Better every week we're trying to get better this year I'm not I am I Just show up I work here This week we are talking about Indian weddings so last week we went to Dubai Do you remember that That was fun? We were there. we did a lot of like sightseeing in Dubai in like the three and a half days that we actually could see the city but the other three and a half days or four days that we spent there. We were there for a family wedding and people had tons of questions and we thought it would be a nice way to share some of our Traditions that we know very little about but we thought it would be fun to go through some of them with you guys.

First question: can you explain the different ceremonies in the after party November I Cannot I have no understanding of why they do it. One day you go, they're tearing the man's clothes off, pouring milk on him like he's a bloody Buffet man next day you'll go. What is it for It's to purify, purify you and it's part of your life First, like the first of many prayers. Is they call it the janya ceremony? Yes, that's sort of like where the man the boy becomes a man and then they.

they do this ceremony so that he's prepared to get married so that he's a man and circumcision. Oh it's not a circumcision, that's what the the guy the guy came with the cleaver. We want an episode of how you two met what was the first convo. Like a lot of a lot of people, why are you a Christmas tree? Was that the one actually I Saw her in uh I saw her in a Christmas tree farm.

He's so rude standing dressed like a Christmas that was his pickup pickup line. That's what he said to me, you need watering. You look like a tree so it's smooth. No he was so rude.

Why would you say that I actually was wearing this red dress. My mom forced me to wear this dress red and it had green and he I was like and it said comfortable, you look like a Christmas tree So rude. and then I put an ornament on her I think I cried you probably cried I Just wondering. Go ahead.

You should behaved at these two weddings. Absolutely not. I Did no. What did I Do you know what he did? Why are you shouting yeah? Camera face knows how my heart is feeling.
It just disappeared. Where did you go when just vanished and everyone was looking for it. They're like ready. Go! Where'd he go? He was just gone.

it was too loud. He went to take a nap. Is there traditional wedding? Foods You don't see any other time of the year? No. What about like the Corral and stuff.

you will see that all the time. You just don't justify eating it unless there's a wedding. That's true. you can eat whatever you want there are.

It's like any other religion or culture. You just get together. You eat random Foods all day. No, there wasn't any one particular thing that was like wedding only though there's no such thing.

a wedding cake. which sucks. Nobody eats those. We didn't eat it.

Did you eat it? You waited? No, No. I don't eat eggs I Like eggs. Okay next, is it true that you use astrology as a way to find the right partner? How do you young, professional feels about the tradition of arranged marriages? I Think rather than use astrology, you should use geometry if they cannot solve the geometric, if they cannot solve the geometric equation, cannot get married, you didn't solve it. If the girl is obtuse, set her loose.

you're so the angle is right. Man, you'll be all right. you'll have a good night. Okay, that's a hilarious thing that happened during an Indian wedding.

Nothing hilarious happened. Oh, when we came back to the room and had to remove all the Bensons from your head, that was hilarious. But the other day where there was a whole thing. a whole like nest in your head, you didn't even know.

no idea. Lady put a whole thing in your head. you didn't I had no idea. So I had my hair on the side in like a little bun I opened out my hair and there was a whole thing in there I didn't even know you were shocked I was shocked I was shocked too.

What is an Indian wedding Fopa? the big no-nos Um, oh, go on time. Okay, don't be that person. 6 p.m going 7, 30, 8, 9. So if you're a foreigner, you go at eight.

Okay, no nine is too late. That's olden days. Okay now eight an hour and a half later ago. Otherwise you'll have to go set up.

the hall depends where in the world. The further east you go, the later you have and these guys actually tried to be on time. Still an hourly minimum. impossible.

They really the further east you go, you have to attack on more time. Yeah! so in the U.S North America One hour Europe Hour and a half India Two hours Jakarta Three hours. Oh my. God Guaranteed.

Just don't go. No, No. Like, why are you so mean today I Heard about the weird Traditions at Indian Weddings me too. Next question, they're awesome.

That's only for the for the foreigners coming with hot sauce. They're not weird. they're beautiful. Did they have elephants? No.
but their grandparents were quite Hefty Oh my. God It's not nice to refer to the In-laws as elephants that is. Daniela There was a horse. There was a horse.

Are the outfits you wear tradition and you have to wear them. No. sometimes you can just walk in naked carrying the outfit, but it's frowned upon because it makes all the drunk. You don't have to wear anything but you should.

Nudity is no I Like wearing the fun Indian outfits. You don't have to do anything. You could do whatever you want. You could wear the blue Indian outfit.

He went in workout clothes and like jeans. That's not. that's the front. No, it's not.

There was one breaker. You're talking so much today because it's a 35 minute episode today. Tell them in the beginning disclaimer: like please cancel your plans tonight She knows am I Not allowed to talk, you're allowed so then I'm just saying thanks, um you know one of these one of these prayers are you frozen I'm gonna eat today I was like my mainly and how about every Indian wedding Oh stealing the shoes and punching each other in the face? That's a horrible thing we do. yeah we need to stop that tradition.

it really is explained it: I'll take a nap so they basically play this game and blackmail the boy and they get his shoes. They give him his shoes back when they give when he gives them money but nowadays it ends up in this big fight. There's the kids that get hurt and it's just like a big thing you guys lost their Turpin it was really bad this like it's not a good, it's not a good situation anymore I'm invited to an Indian wedding. What is appropriate attire for me? All women that are not Indian must wear a full black tuxedo Only that's how visitors come.

No, it's perfectly appropriate if you want to wear a dress, but it's also complete acceptable if you want to ask your Indian friends to borrow outfits I lent out so many sarees and lenghas and outfits to so many of you two can be the token white friend dressed in India There are so many and it's really really fun for you to play dress up and to get you know to get all dolled up. I Highly recommend it! How long does a typical Indian wedding last? Like how many days? Four three to four times and it's so fun. You get to do the same thing over and again with the same people just in different outfits. It's super fun.

You do it over and over again. You go stay in a hotel You say okay today is room A same people, same time. go back to your room, get undress, redressed, same makeup. You know who does it The makeup ladies.

they're the winners. Those makeup ladies made out well. they did every time like oh what look you want for tonight? Oh no no you did that yesterday. let's do a new look.

It was nobody can tell a difference. Everybody can tell the difference. That's all we got for you today. You two should get married Indian style.
Thank you for joining us. What are you doing? This is how I say farewell Now Absolute thank you for joining us. Um if you have any other questions, pop them down below. I'll see if maybe I'll spend some time answering them.

Um I Don't know what the heck is going on here. Maybe you're tired. You need to go to bed, have a great day ring finger for when you get married.

By Sheena

14 thoughts on “Indian weddings! or everything we know about them! sheena trid”
  1. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Sagar G says:

    Funtoon was cute n funny.

  2. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars TANVEE BAGALKAR says:

    TRID is missing a finger!!😮

  3. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Lazarus aap says:

    I'd love to attend one some day

  4. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars irshad says:

    🥰🥰🥰

  5. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Navii nivas says:

    Sry to ask . But is TRID INDIAN??

  6. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Bradley James says:

    Love your show need more like this running out of video to watch st night when sleeping

  7. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars srishti agarwal says:

    Is it just me or trid's index finger is really small in comparison to other fingers.

  8. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Robin Kumar says:

    The algorithm did throw me to your page, not complaining.

  9. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Shobha Bn says:

    Award to TRID💥

  10. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars びみ says:

    Europe, hour and a half?! My German ass would be fuming, if anyone came an hour and a half late. One of my closest friends is notoriously late and it drives me absolutely bonkers. About 20 minutes early is my punctual. But then I wait until it is exactly, like exactly, the agreed upon time and then I ring the bell or go in or whatever. I know that's a bit over the top but that's what I feel most comfortable with. Still, if a party in Germany is set to start at 8, it starts at 8. +/- 20-30 minutes max is okay-ish under some circumstances but, meh… Just be on time. Same for Japan, by the way. Maybe we're just the exceptions to the rule.

  11. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Safiverse says:

    I just found you guys today and subscribed – I literally was in tears I was laughing so much !!! 🤣

  12. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Aaron Lowe says:

    This has put me off weddings for life, because I only like practical things.

  13. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars S R says:

    This man is a legend. How tf did he make Geometry funny

  14. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Thokozile Nyirenda says:

    😂 If the girl is obtuse set her loose.. I need that on a shirt

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